West Bend VFW Post 1393 Honors Vietnam Veteran Tommy Downing with Massive Celebration
WEST BEND, WI – Hundreds flooded VFW Post 1393 on Sand Drive this past weekend for a heartfelt Celebration of Life honoring Vietnam veteran Tommy Downing. The event revealed the profound impact Downing had on his community, underscored by the turnout and emotional tributes from friends and family alike.
Born and raised on a modest dairy farm near Tomah, Wisconsin, Tommy’s early years helped shape his lifelong values and dedication. As his brother Jim Downing described, Tommy was both a teacher and role model within their family of eight siblings. “He taught me respect — respect for the farm, the animals, and the hard life we lived,” Jim said.
Drafted into the Army, Serving in Vietnam at 19
Tommy moved to West Bend following his older brother Jerry, but soon his life took a dramatic turn when he was drafted into the U.S. Army during the Vietnam War era. Training began at Fort Leonard Wood and continued at the Aberdeen Proving Grounds for aircraft instruction before he deployed overseas with the First Cavalry Division. Within six months, the 19-year-old was in the thick of combat.
His brother reflects on the difficult transition home: “He was a country kid who witnessed things he wasn’t prepared for in Vietnam. It took him a while to reconnect with us when he returned.”
Building a Second Family at the VFW Post
Though Tommy never married or had children, he found deep fulfillment in the veteran community where he settled. His long-standing involvement at VFW Post 1393 became more than volunteerism—it was foundational.
Susie Graff, a longtime VFW volunteer, recalls Tommy as the driving force behind many post traditions. He initiated the now-famous Tuesday night burger fry, fondly called the “Tommy Burger,” serving burgers to perfection with pride. “He was the first Santa Claus and Easter Bunny here. There isn’t a holiday event he didn’t shape,” Graff said.
Tommy’s care for the post extended beyond festivities. He maintained the grounds, planting flowers, pulling weeds, and personally funding many improvements. “He was here early every morning, even before the manager,” Graff emphasized.
Generosity and Quiet Leadership
Tommy’s giving spirit was especially felt during the holidays, where he donated gifts to children and quietly supported the community. Graff recalled one Christmas when Tommy was initially denied funds for presents. Volunteers quickly responded, raising more money than ever to ensure his generosity reached local children.
“He was a great guy. He will truly be missed here.” – Susie Graff, VFW Volunteer
Unexpected, Overwhelming Turnout Reflects Impact
The turnout for the Celebration of Life overwhelmed the family and organizers alike. “We were totally blown away by the size of the crowd,” Jim said. “The club really took care of spreading the word, and everyone showed up.”
The event at VFW Post 1393 stands as a testament to the legacy of a man who transformed his small-town roots and military service into a lasting foundation for veterans and family in West Bend.
Why It Matters Today
Downing’s story resonates nationally as a reminder of the sacrifices Vietnam veterans endured and the communities that rally to support them. His grassroots impact at the VFW offers a powerful example of how one person’s dedication can foster lifelong camaraderie and service.
For readers across the United States and Alaska, Tommy Downing’s legacy is a call to recognize and honor veterans’ contributions within their own communities.
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