Natalie Lynch, 56, made a life-changing decision in 2024 by relocating from California to France, seeking a slower pace and lower living costs. After selling her home in Oakland and her 24-year-old home-staging business, Lynch embarked on a journey that has brought both challenges and new opportunities.
Born to immigrant parents, Lynch’s desire for change intensified during the pandemic, urging her to rethink her life. “The pandemic was a real wake-up call,” she explained. “I decided I needed to make some big changes, even without a clear idea of what that would look like.” This led her to sell her home in Oakland in 2021, followed by her business in 2024.
Initially, Lynch and her small dog, Enzo, explored the Italian coast. They spent time in Florence and Rome, experiencing the vibrant culture and friendly atmosphere. Lynch found Florence particularly appealing but quickly realized that living there long-term was financially unfeasible. The monthly rent for an apartment was around $2,400, a price tag that made it difficult to sustain a budget on her savings.
Settling in Audenge: A New Chapter
After traversing Italy and spending time in Spain, Lynch settled in Audenge, a small town on the coast of Arcachon Bay, near Bordeaux, France. Currently, she rents a duplex for €1,200 (approximately $1,400) which includes utilities. This move, while comforting, was also tinged with sadness, as it meant leaving behind the charm of Florence.
“While I loved Florence, I envisioned a life by the sea,” Lynch noted. She is determined to create a home base where she can finally receive her belongings from California and establish a sense of stability. “I want to meet kind people and enjoy life by the palm-lined promenade,” she shared.
Despite the challenges of adjusting to a new culture and language, Lynch has embraced the experience. She has navigated new towns and shops while making an effort to learn French. Recently, she even purchased a car for €18,600 (around $21,802.83), marking a significant milestone in her journey.
Embracing Change and Fostering Independence
Living in Europe has allowed Lynch to discover not only new places but also deeper insights about herself. Traveling with Enzo has been a significant advantage, as he has helped her connect with others and feel more at ease. “I’ve learned to adapt and figure things out,” she said. “I’ve not once been so frustrated that I’ve given up.”
Though she misses her friends back in the United States, Lynch feels optimistic about her future in France. She has no intention of returning to the U.S. due to the financial constraints she experienced there. Living comfortably in Europe has become possible on a budget of around $3,000 per month, allowing her to enjoy life without the pressures of her previous lifestyle.
While Lynch acknowledges that her life in France is not yet a fairytale, it certainly represents an improvement over her life in California. The slower pace and absence of constant work-related stress have provided her with a newfound appreciation for life. “I don’t think I’m living my best life here, but it’s a better life than I had in California,” she concluded, embracing the journey ahead.
As she continues to adapt to her new surroundings, Lynch remains hopeful and determined to make the most of her European adventure, one day at a time.
