Carolyn Mailliard Hacker, a beloved figure in the San Rafael community, passed away on November 21, 2025, at the age of 87 due to complications from Alzheimer’s disease. Her death marks the end of a life rich in family, community service, and personal achievements, leaving behind a legacy that will be remembered by many.
Roots and Early Life
Born in 1938 in San Francisco, Carolyn was the eldest daughter of J.W. Mailliard and Margaret Field. She was also the eldest granddaughter of Ward and Kate Mailliard, whose family connections spanned the Bay Area, including significant roots in San Geronimo, Cotati, Yorkville, and San Francisco. These places held deep meaning for her throughout her life.
During her childhood, Carolyn traveled with her family while her father served in the United States Army. After World War II, the family returned to San Francisco, where Carolyn pursued her education at KD Burke School and Katherine Branson Girls School. She later attended Connecticut College for Women, laying the groundwork for a life dedicated to service and community.
A Lifetime of Service
In 1963, Carolyn settled in San Rafael, where she would live for over six decades. Her passion for gardening flourished, leading to numerous accolades at the Marin County Fair. She took pride in her beautiful plants, finding joy in nurturing nature.
Beyond gardening, Carolyn was an avid knitter and had a profound interest in genealogy. She dedicated countless hours to researching her family’s history, ensuring future generations would inherit a rich understanding of their roots. Carolyn’s community spirit was evident in her volunteer work within the Miller Creek Elementary School District and the San Rafael City Schools District from 1972 to 1980. Her commitment to education and community service reflected her belief in giving back to the community she cherished.
Carolyn is survived by her husband, Paul Hacker; her children, Barbara and Lyn; and her grandchildren, Andrew, Chris, Emily, Amanda, and Kevin. She also leaves behind a great-granddaughter, Jocelyn, her sisters Kathy and Margot, along with many nieces, nephews, and cousins.
A Celebration of Life is planned in honor of Carolyn’s birthday and Mother’s Day in May 2026. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that memorial contributions be made to the San Rafael Public Library Foundation or the Marin Humane Society, allowing Carolyn’s spirit of community service to continue through these organizations.
Carolyn Mailliard Hacker will be remembered for her dedication to family, her love for her community, and the countless lives she touched throughout her journey.
